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The Art of Hot Monogamy 


Attracting & Turning on Juicy Committed Love

The 5 Essential Feminine Skills / A 5 month private mentorship 

July-November, 2021

Radiantly turned on...   

excited, interested, empowered in relationship...

more satisfied, cherished and lit up year after year…

YES this is possible!

Most of us yearn for a passionate, satisfying intimate relationship.  And yet, we often find ourselves feeling unmet, not fully satisfied. Maybe you date and date, not finding passionate intimacy that lasts. Maybe you are in a good relationship yet inside a voice whispers more is possible.  

You thrive in many ways but struggle to connect to your own pleasure, to attract the partner you want, or feel attracted to the partner you have, in the midst of a busy life.  You dream of hot sex instead of having it.


​You deserve a relationship as extraordinary as you are!  Conventional relationship advice focuses your attention on the other person, leaving you at the mercy of their mood, preferences and availability.


What if there is a different way?  Where you have the knowledge and power to transform any moment into an interesting, alive connection.  Able to attract and evoke what you desire from a partner, and from yourself.  Able to say No in a way that opens rather than shrinks love.  Where you reclaim and inhabit “femininity” on your own empowered modern terms.  Where turn on and juiciness are reliably available to you, and your relationship feels as extraordinary as the rest of your life.

I’ve been there.  I spent most of my life learning to be successful.  I had the prestigious degrees and power career but couldn’t seem to excel at relationship like I did in the rest of my life.  An early marriage in my 20s started picture perfect and ended in divorce after 4 years.  I dated and remarried in my 30s but still felt confused and amateur in relating.  The early deep connection and erotic passion was cooling and familiar disappointment was building.  I knew how to reliably create success in most areas of my life – why was it so hard to get what I wanted in relationship? 

This quest inspired 15 years of study and practice with the world’s leading experts in sexuality, spirituality, embodiment and relating.  I learned to reliably create turn on and evoke the best in a partner. I discovered the range and power of my sexuality, desires and innate gifts as a woman.  I retrained my body and mind, vastly expanded who I know myself to be and created a marriage that inspires, fulfills and turns me on every day. 

It is the most valuable education I ever invested in.  No bank account or 

resume is more fulfilling than a lifelong lit up, turned on relationship!



I promise you can learn to:

  • Ignite pleasure and desire in your body, even amidst children, aging, 

      and a busy career

  • Identify and shift habits which unconsciously turn you or your partner

      off, or attract the wrong partners

  • Spark chemistry and attraction at will (even after years together)

  • Have sex be a fun, safe arena of discovery and experimentation,

       solo and partnered

  • Create a relationship that nurtures and celebrates the best in you both

 “Overcome the notion that you must be regular.

    It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary." 

-- Uta Hagen

The Process

This embodied immersion is customized for you.  You will be guided through the most effective practices for igniting passionate aliveness and juicy lasting love, where you are empowered and artful at attracting the partnership dynamic you want.  You will go deep into your body, your heart, your emotions and desires. We will explore and refine your physical, sensual, spiritual and sexual layers with creativity and compassion.  You will discover what dims your spark while following a safe path that unlocks the most satisfying love you could imagine.  You will journey with a confidential circle of 8-12 potent, supportive women. 

You will be mentored in the 5 Essential Feminine Skills:

  • AWAKENING PLEASURE & DESIRE - Fill up, turn on and overflow yourself first

  • EXPANDING ENERGY & RANGE - Claim your dark & light; 1001 Nights of You

  • UNLOCKING RESPONSIVENESS & SENSITIVITY - Meet your subtle body superpower

  • SURRENDERING & TAKING CONTROL - Navigate the masculine & feminine in both of you

  • LOVING AS A DEVOTIONAL ART - Say “I do” to a life of passion & expansion


Week by week, you will:

  • Expand your capacity for pleasure and your unique sensual artistry

  • Understand masculine/feminine dynamics to dramatically improve your communication and relating skills

  • Dissolve limiting beliefs and habits, revealing a clear path to get what you want in relationship 

  • Reclaim “femininity” on your terms – empowered, artful, inviting

  • Own and offer your “Yes” and your “No” with love  

  • Become a sovereign magnetic queen who evokes and receives the BEST, in life and in love


This Sensual Immersion runs July-November, 2021 and includes:    

* Live Weekly Zoom calls (6hrs/month): lessons, guided practices & live coaching

(all calls and practices are recorded for repeat practice at home)

* Personalized Homework Assignments for your Private Exploration

*Supplemental Resource List (articles, books, videos, practices)

* 1:1 Creation Session (and private support as needed)

* 3 day In Person Mountain Retreat (travel/hotel booked separately)

* A Confidential Supportive Loving Sisterhood

* BONUS June session included for early enrollees



Your Guide

Ali Kole is a sensual muse who helps successful women and couples ignite passionately enlivened intimacy and freedom in their lives and relationships.  Over 20+years as a beauty industry CEO and advisor, her search to “have it all” led to 15 years studying and now teaching intimacy and pleasure.  Using her own marriage and career as a laboratory, Ali dedicates herself to the practice of relationship artistry and "modern femininity".  She has trained, assisted and co-taught with world leading spiritual intimacy and relationship teachers including David Deida, Michaela Boehm, John Wineland and John Gottman.  Ali offers the safety and knowledge for you to reclaim your body for your own pleasure, and to unlock power, passion and hot chemistry anytime you want it, in the midst of a busy career and family life.

                                                  Join Us!  Invest in what you really want💕

You are extraordinary and meant to live the life and relationship you dream of – turned on, connected, supported, and inspired.  You hire coaches, tutors and trainers to create excellence in other areas of your life - why not relating?  Claim the fullness of you and get what you really want - a hot inspiring partnership that gets better and juicier over time!  Become an artist of love...

Join us if you:

  • Want to live a vibrantly alive life, with a relationship that lights you up; where you feel cherished and supported, and intimacy and passion deepen over time

  • Believe more is possible and are done delaying, sacrificing or settling for "good enough" (even if it’s good, you want more!) 

  • Are willing to invest and dive deeply into loving better, with the right roadmap, tools and support

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